Tuesday, January 19, 2010

She speaks........

Mily went for a minor procedure today to remove the filter that was put in place (Greenfield) to help catch clots. They can't stay in long term; the docs feel it has done it's job. For whatever reason, that procedure didn't go great - they were unable to pull the filter; she will return to interventional radiology tomorrow to try to retrieve it again. That was Mily's exhausting adventure for the day. They placed a special valve over her trach that allows her to generate speech as the way a trach sits prevents vocal noise. Mily asked for 'mom', and later said 'Daniel' as she reached for his hand! This is her first speech in over 3 weeks! This is HUGE!! There is a possibility that the trach will be closed up on Thurs or Fri of this week if Mily continues to make such epic progress. Once that happens, they will be able to evaluate her ability to swallow. This will determine ALOT about rehab and what it's safe for her to eat/drink when ready. Many stroke patients have impaired swallowing ability and need soft foods and liquids that have been thickened so they don't aspirate. For now, all is well - I got no reports of agitation today, just more good news on her incredible journey of healing. We will never know why this happened to our Mily; perhaps to illustrate to all of us the true power of the human spirit. I don't know, but I'm asking God what he has for me to learn from this as I truly believe there's a lesson here for all of us. We travel this road together, therefore our paths do more than cross - they parallel and sometimes pull together so we walk hand in hand. My heart is so very happy tonite, I get misty-eyed passing the news on! B

10 comments:

  1. That a girl!! Keep up the good work!
    We continue to pray for your speedy recovery.
    Love to hear of your daily progress.
    Brings tears to my eyes . . . .
    Aunt Jean & Melissa Moore

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  2. Jodi Lozano-LabastidaJanuary 20, 2010 at 7:20 AM

    Oh B! Thanks so much for the good news, and I am going to believe that they were not able to pull that filter yesterday as there was a reason that it should stay for that time! I do know that there is a reason for everything and that we don't get to know all of the answers.
    It is our job to be grateful for all of the wonders that we get to live and observe in life, and also to recognize those which sometimes we have to dig deep and truly meditate to realize just what they are, yet when we take the time to do that our gratitude grows and grows. Another one of God's little miracles!
    Mily you are such a fighter and perform such amazing feets every day we are all so darned proud of you!! I am so glad that Dan is there with you!! Praise God for bringing him home in yours and Ryan's time of need. I am very grateful and humbled!
    Love you all so very much, I will write to you tomorrow and when you can dial and talk you give me a call, what a special treat that will be. Will wait patiently for that day, Mils. I love you, Aunt Jodi

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  3. Dear Bethany and friends, I want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for your continued support of ALL of us in keeping us up to date. I can't begin to tell you how often I get a call or an email praising your amazing updates and love for Mily, Danny and Ryan and the rest of their family and friends. God Bless each of you.
    Much love, Mom Sharon

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  4. My Dear Mily, after reading this post from Bethany - I was wondering how I could make you the meatloaf in a liquid form. Kind of sounds gross don't you think? So maybe by the time I get back to see you - you'll be able to eat a very small amount, or if you keep up the wonderful job - you'll be eating lobster soon. Thank you for being the strong and wonderful woman you are. I know that the Lord has special plans for you here with us....

    Love you so much, mom Sharon

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  5. So great to hear! Mily's strength and courage are amazing. Mils I miss talking to you and getting those weird cryptic text messages from you! Heather and I think about you often and wish nothing less than the best for you.
    Dave S. from Portland, OR

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  6. Mily - you are continually blowing me away with your progress. I shouldn't be shocked in anyway, shape or form because its you but I still am. Speaking now - how about that!! Now you can talk football. Big games this weekend. We are still having big rain storms in San Diego. Don't laugh because I know Washington has rain storms all the time but really these are big ones. Lots of flooding, trees blowing over and of course many traffic accidents. I hope to be babysitting Justin's girls this weekend. Got to get my fix of my granddaughters. They are into tea parties right now so that may be a fun thing to do with them. I love you so much. And you have some amazing friends who have kept us all informed of your progress. I am sending them a huge group hug. Thank you to you all. I love you Mily!! Aunt Vicki

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  7. Mily
    I am sending you lots of love and strength. I am so proud of you!! You have done your own Ironman-SO as far as I am concerned you are an IRONMAN/IRONWOMAN.
    Lots of hugs and kisses
    Melissa

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  8. Wow I am so happy to hear about your latest progress! I knew you were a fighter. Thank God that you are able to communicate now and you will soon be talking and eating. Mily you are amazing! Keep fighting.
    Adelina

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  9. HEY BABY. GRANDMA NORMA HERE THE NEWS IS GOOD THE COMMENTS OF FAITH - LOVE - AND HOPE - FROM FAMILY AND FRIENDS GOOD GOD GERTIE YOUR ON YOUR WAY SISTER, WE ARE VERY WET HERE IN LEISURE WORLD ALSO HAD A SCARE WITH A TORNADO WATCH MAN WOULD GRANDPA MERV LOVED THAT, HE TAUGHT ME TO BE PREPARED RIGHT DOWN TO 3 WAY CALLING WITH SHARON AND JODI DURING THE FEARFUL TIME THATS MY GIRLS ALTO' PREPARED I HAD NEGLECTED TO HAVE THE SCANNER POWERED UP *BATTERIES BUT DID THE FLASHLIGHTS LAST WEEK, HAD MY 2 POINT WEIGHT WATCHER BARS AND WATER PLUS WAY OVER THE TOP WITH POINTS CASHEWS I'M TALKING A GREAT BIG JAR *STILL CLOSED THO....MY LOVE TO YOU DANNY AND RYAN GN

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  10. Mily- You continue to impress us! Keep up the good work.
    Love and Prayers,
    Renee

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